Saturday, July 23, 2011

22 books I want to read before I'm 23

Well, I turned 22 yesterday.  22 on the 22nd--pretty cool.  It doesn't really feel much different from when I was 21, but at the same time I feel like I've crossed an important threshold.  Growing up, 21 was the age I considered to be the biggest milestone, because it would close so many chapters of my life and open so many new ones (most notably, it would mark the close of my mission and the beginning of the post-mission life that always seemed so far away before).  But 22 is kind of important, too, when I think about it . . . not so much because of what's happening, but what's not happening, or what's already started and is just continuing.  There's not really any pressure on 22 to be a special year, and that in turn makes it extra special because it's been so long since I've reached such a laid back age.  I'm another year older now--okay, now back to work.  I like that.

But big or small, goals are always good to have.  Life is a forward motion, but if you drift you'll still be as weak at the end as when you started.  Recently I've seen a few of my friends make lists of 22 things they want to do before they turn 23 (or some similar variation), and I think that's such an awesome idea.  I'd like to do something like it.

Mine is going to be a little different, though.  I love trying new things and having a good adventure, and I continually strive to improve myself, too.  Of course I have a few goals that I'd like to work on: actively participating in an orchestra and practicing my violin, attending the temple more diligently, taking more walks, fixing my bike so I can ride it again, selling some old stuff on eBay . . . and so on.  I'm not going to ignore those, because they are goals I have.  But for this list, I'd like to focus on just one goal: becoming more well read.

This is a lifetime pursuit, of course; even the most well read person in the world can read new things and learn from them.  There's always room for improvement, and there's no ceiling to reach.  That's part of the appeal for me.  I love learning, and the thought that it never ends is to me what a bottomless chest of buried treasure is to a pirate.

Credit for this love of learning might appropriately be given to my parents, who among everything else especially made sure their children grew up literate.  I remember as a kid, when school was out for the summer, the rule in our house was this: no TV, no video games, no computer, no friends--nothing--until we had spent a certain amount of time (according to our age) studying the scriptures, and an equal amount of time reading any other book of our choosing.  It was one of the greatest things my parents could have done for me.

And that's what I hope to instill in my children someday.  They can be whoever they want to be.  They can play football, or dance, or make music, or garden, or paint, or any other thing under Heaven.  But whatever they become, I at least want them to have a love for (or at least experience with) books and learning.  I want them to know the scriptures, but I also want them to be familiar with fiction and history and science.   

Well, that starts with me.  It seems like whenever I talk about the goals I have for when I'm a father, there's always someone who comes out and says something to the effect of "You've got a long way to go; just enjoy single life while it lasts, because it's not coming back."  I hate when they say that.  I'm enjoying single life, believe me.  I'm living in the present and taking quite enough advantage of where I'm at.  Yet is it not wise also to prepare for the future?  As missionaries, we had to find people to teach before we could teach them.  Sometimes, even though we worked hard, we'd go days at a time without anyone to teach, and any lesson felt very far away.  But when we found them, we couldn't sit in their living room and have our companionship study session right there.  That was something we did in the morning, before we went out.  That was when we prepared to teach.  And so it is with this.  Granted, I'm sure nothing can truly prepare me for fatherhood; but that doesn't mean there's nothing I can do to get ready for it.  More than likely it's going to be nothing like I expect, but I can at least get a general idea of what kind of dad I want to be.

And so, I want to be the kind of dad who tells and reads stories to his children.  I want to know enough stories that my supply will never run out, and I can always have an appropriate one for the occasion.  I want to have wise quotes on my tongue passed down from good men in history.  I want to know all sorts of little facts about plants and animals and the world in general to appease the curiosity of young minds.

With that in mind, you may see a bit of a theme in this list of books I want to read in the coming year.  But don't think it's just for my kids; the beautiful thing about it is that these are books I've wanted to read anyway, on topics in which I'm already interested.  Their future application is simply the icing on the cake, and adds a greater purpose to my goal.

But enough talk.  In no particular order:


1--Treasure Island, by Robert Louis Stevenson

2--Race Rider, by Scott Hail (a friend of mine!)

3--The Fate of the Mammoth: Fossils, Myth, and History, by Claudine Cohen

4--Grimm's Fairy Tales, by the Brothers Grimm (of course!)

5--Early Masterpieces of Latter-day Saint Leaders, compiled by N.B. Lundwall

6--Alice's Adventures in Wonderland and Through the Looking Glass, by Lewis Carroll

7--The Little Prince, by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

8--Fairy Tales, by Hans Christian Andersen

9--Aesop's Fables

10--Ten Great Mysteries by Edgar Allen Poe (I'm not sure who compiled it, but it's the stories that count, right?)

11--The Adventures of Tom Sawyer, by Mark Twain

12--Gulliver's Travels, by Jonathan Swift

13--Ancient America Rediscovered, by Mariano Veytia (translated by my mom, so it's extra cool) 

14--The Wit and Wisdom of Abraham Lincoln, compiled by James C. Humes

15--The Princess Bride, by William Goldman

16--Twenty Thousand Leagues Under the Sea, by Jules Verne

17--The Legend of Sleepy Hollow and Other Writings, by Washington Irving

18--To the Rescue: The Biography of Thomas S. Monson, by Heidi S. Swinton

19--Hamlet, Macbeth, King Lear: Three Tragedies (another one whose compiler I don't know, but Shakespeare is awesome regardless)

20--The Eye of the World, by Robert Jordan

21--The Jungle Books, by Rudyard Kipling

22--Phantastes, by George MacDonald

8 comments:

The Warrior said...

love learning, and the thought that it never ends is to me what a bottomless chest of buried treasure is to a pirate.

OK dude, I am so borrowing *coughstealingcough* that phrase!

...or any other thing under Heaven.

Hehehe...like the job my friend just took? :-P

Yet is it not wise also to prepare for the future?

Indeed!!! I couldn't agree more! Everyone thinks I'm insane for my constant...well, my constant practice that you are also practicing! When go-time comes, we'll see who's ready. (Hint: it isn't gonna be them! :-P)

And so, I want to be the kind of dad who tells and reads stories to his children. I want to know enough stories that my supply will never run out, and I can always have an appropriate one for the occasion. I want to have wise quotes on my tongue passed down from good men in history. I want to know all sorts of little facts about plants and animals and the world in general to appease the curiosity of young minds.

Fantastic!!! This is the PERFECT attitude, man, I immensely respect you for this. I too love to fill my head with "wise quotes" from the great men of the past, and little tidbits...I use them every day pretty much, even though I have no children. :-D (And on one note, just remember to make sure whatever you tell them is dead true: I know from experience that believing in lies for years is incredibly frustrating and difficult when you discover the truth.)

As to a list of books, what a wonderful idea man! I've actually toyed with doing this myself...perhaps a new blog list is in order! I myself have only really thought much about what I would make my sons read...I would expect my wife to give me a few more ideas on what to make my daughters read. :-D

EPIC post Cunningham!

Spencer

The Warrior said...

P.S.

The Fate of the Mammoth: Fossils, Myth, and History, by Claudine Cohen

Oh, we need to read this one together! You get an extra EPIC COOLNESS stamp for this one being on your list. I've got about six books going right now...but should be done in a month or two. Wanna start it then maybe? IDK, we'll talk about it....

Spencer

Jonas said...

You're really in for loads of treats with this list! Numbers 1 (in particular), 10 (honestly I don't know about that particular compilation but Poe is da man), 11, 16 and 21 are wonderful pieces of writing. Carroll's books are on my list too, and so is Sleepy Hollow (I love that movie, have you seen it?).

I might also add that I'm impressed with your thoughts on your future fatherhood in a weird sort of way. Myself I find all that very far away and quite scary even to think of... Alas, we are all growing up, aren't we? (on a related note I'd put Peter Pan on that list of yours if you haven't read it already ;))

Oh, and my word verification says "listr", that's sort of creepy in this instance...

Lydia said...

You've got lots of good stuff on that list. Happy reading!

Nathan said...

Oh, we need to read this one together! You get an extra EPIC COOLNESS stamp for this one being on your list. I've got about six books going right now...but should be done in a month or two. Wanna start it then maybe?

Sounds good to me! I should be ready by then, I think. We'll talk about it more as the time approaches. :)


Sleepy Hollow (I love that movie, have you seen it?)

I haven't, but I've been exposed to enough of the story that I want to read it, haha! I'm mostly attracted to the book, though, because it also contains the story of Rip Van Winkle, which I want to research a bit for another story I'm writing. But hey--having both stories in the same book is a great deal if you ask me!


on a related note I'd put Peter Pan on that list of yours if you haven't read it already

Ah, brilliant recommendation! It's definitely in the works--perhaps next list? We'll see. :)


Oh, and my word verification says "listr", that's sort of creepy in this instance...

Hahaha! Blogger knows. o.O

Jonas said...

Ah, brilliant recommendation! It's definitely in the works--perhaps next list? We'll see. :)

Your 23-books-to-read-before-you-turn-24-list? ;)

olde.fashioned said...

Spencer told me it was a fabulous post; boy was he right!!!

I admire your approach to preparing for future little Cunninghams; if more young people didn't fritter away their youth, I think we wouldn't be having half the social issues we are now...

Also agree with wanting to be more well-read. It's a weak area that I see in myself, and even if I don't expect to like certain "culturally important" works, there are a few I plan to slog through anyway (i.e., 1984), whereas certain titles I think I'll just pass on completely. Ya know? I like how a lot of your classics are kid/family-friendly! Not all of this The Catcher in the Rye, Dangerous Liasions, or Lady Chatterley's Lover crap... (I don't know if I already recommended Robinson Crusoe to you? I ADORED it when I read it a few summers ago, and I'm sure you'll like it, if not love it as much as I did.)

Have you read Black Beauty or The Swiss Family Robinson?

Hopefully you'll keep us all abreast of your reading list as it progresses, and indulge your fan base in some more of those wonderfully succinct reviews! ;D

Quick question: how many of these titles are you reading as research for a story you're working on? 0;)

Nathan said...

Your 23-books-to-read-before-you-turn-24-list? ;)

Haha! I dunno how long I can maintain such goals, but a comprehensive reading list is a lifetime endeavor anyway, so whatever happens I at least have that list. ;-D


Have you read Black Beauty or The Swiss Family Robinson?

Nope, but I've heard good things!


Quick question: how many of these titles are you reading as research for a story you're working on?

Well to be honest, everything I read can be viewed as research for writing. Biographies are great for character development, and whenever I read a novel I pay close attention to the author's writing style in order to learn from it (for example, my recent reading of Leroux's "Phantom of the Opera" was a wonderful lesson in suspense for me). But specifically (as I'm sure your question was meant, haha!), Washington Irving's work and "The Little Prince" are my main research focus for the time being. I expect "Phantastes" to prove useful, as well. :)

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